I’m guessing I’m not the only one a wee bit exhausted from the fun festivities, travel and - yes - stress of the holiday season. This time of year is often a mix of light-hearted revelry and overwhelming to-do’s, closing out the commitments of the prior year, balancing time with family and friends and attempting to emerge from it all refreshed and ready to tackle new challenges. We often hit the ground running with heady expectations: eat better, exercise more, be more engaged with those around us, be kinder to ourselves.
And while I’m all for setting goals - in fact, I’m a firm believer that naming them, writing them down even, is an effective first step to realizing one’s dreams - I’m also encouraging all of you to give yourselves a break. Did you wake up yesterday, a bit groggy from a New Year’s Eve celebration and promptly blow off your planned run? Did you have every intention of hitting the gym first thing this morning, followed by a grocery-shopping extravaganza wherein you would fill your pantry with fresh produce and whole grains? And yet are you still in your pajamas, sipping a second cup of coffee and surfing Facebook to see which of your friends are more motivated than you?
I’m not suggesting that you erase your resolutions. Do everything you’ve imagined and more. Incorporate your goals into your daily life and gradually develop healthy new routines. But don’t beat yourself up if you don’t quite manage a one hundred percent effort on Day One. If you can’t swing that two-hour run, get out the door for 20 minutes. Sometimes baby steps cut the fastest path to change. And every single one of those steps counts toward making this the best year of your life. So try not to be paralyzed by the prospect of lofty expectations. Simply start. The finish line you’ve visualized is far less important than the steps you’ll take along the way.
Happy New Year!
- Holly Bennett
Note: With this final post, I’m signing off my role as a Women’s Running Magazine blogger to focus on other writing projects. I hope to write a book some day - but for now, I’m taking it one word at a time.